It’s a new year, and you’ve decided that this is the year you are going to make some changes. This year you are going to take action and take back control of something in your life; whether it be losing some weight, getting back in shape, eating better, finally quitting smoking, the list goes on and on. This year you are going to do it! While I always encourage others to find something in their life that they would like to commit to bettering, I have also found that many people decide to make changes and then aren’t able to follow through with them. Why is this? Many would say it’s because you lack the willpower and self control to make it happen, and while this may be part of the reason, I don’t believe it is the cause – I believe it’s an effect. Just like with chiropractic, you must get to the root cause of the problem if you want to effect real change and actually make things happen. Just like a headache can be the result of a cervical subluxation rather than a tylenol deficiency (think about that one), lack of will power can be the lack of a strong enough motivating factor rather than your willpower.
You see, I don’t think that you are weak and unable to fulfill your goals due to a lack of self control and willpower. We all have the ability to control our actions. However, your willpower and self control come about as a result of your reasons for committing to change. I think that what is lacking is the purpose behind your plan. The why behind the what. The purpose for your goal. Why have you decided now is the time you are going to start eating healthy? Why do you want to do this? I think it is crucial to take the time to sit down and physically write out the answer to these questions. It will not only help to clarify your goal, but also provide inspiration and motivation to follow through with it.
Let’s clarify and elaborate on this a bit more. Let’s pretend I have decided to commit to a thirty day paleo challenge. This means for an entire month I consume no grains, sugar, legumes or dairy. A lot of CrossFit gyms run an event like this around the new year, and a lot of their clients participate in it for the whole month, lose weight, feel great and make performance gains to boot. Once the thirty days are over the vast majority tend to revert back to their old ways of eating and slowly gain the weight back and regain many of the symptoms they were suffering from before. So, why would they revert back even after seeing such amazing results in just thirty days? Did they lack the willpower to stick with it? That might be part of it, but I think it is not the cause but rather an effect. No, I think, that just as with chiropractic, they didn’t understand why they were doing the challenge to begin with. More importantly, they didn’t have a big enough purpose for doing the challenge – their motivating factor was weak. When you have a weak purpose, nothing else will matter. Your purpose is the foundation of your house, and it must be strong if you want the rest of your home to withstand the tests of time.
To elaborate more on purpose using the paleo challenge example: most of the people participating in this challenge are just doing it because they have heard it is the best way to eat and that lots of other people at their box who have done it lost a lot of weight and felt amazing. While these are pretty good motivators, they are not strong enough to really affect true, lasting change. To do that you need to ask yourself why do I want to lose the weight? What will happen in other areas of my life if I lose weight? Honestly asking and answering these questions will get you to where you need to go. Do you want to lose the weight so you can look good in a bikini? Pretty weak. Do you want to lose the weight so you will be able to play basketball and soccer with your 6 year old? That is a much stronger motivating factor. Do you want to lose the weight so you can prolong your life and be able to play with your 6 year old, watch them grow up, see them get married and then be able to play with your grandchildren? Boom. That is a purpose. This purpose will get you a lot further than just looking good in a bikini will. A key component to a solid purpose is that usually the strongest ones are built on things outside of yourself, bigger than you. This is why I believe most people set goals and fail with them – because they don’t have a big enough purpose, it’s self centered.
That’s my rant for the day – hopefully it made sense and you can put some of these words to thought and then put them into action!


